Hands: label side cameras by the hands when a forced HANDS_SWAP_SIDES disagrees

With HANDS_SWAP_SIDES set to 0 or 1, ft-hands kept the forced naming as the
published truth even after the hands showed it was backwards. The hand recorder
took that as the session's decision, so the export labelled slam_left and
slam_right the wrong way round (dataset PR #4: every take swapped).

ft-hands now publishes the hands' answer once they disagree (state "forced,
disagrees"); tracking keeps the forced names. sides.read_live corrects the same
case from an ft-hands built before this, and the recorder's log says to use auto.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

hands/rec/DESIGN.md

@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@ Every part runs in the dev container, as ft-hands and Input Settings do. The hos
 - **A tracking ft-hands** gives feedback through the hands file: which hands are seen, the palm's distance, the index tip. If none is running, the session starts `ft-hands --no-gestures --status 0` (unit `frametop-handrec-hands.service`). An ft-hands already running is used as it is.
 - **A recording ft-hands** runs once per recording part: `ft-hands --record-only --record DIR --record-for SECONDS --record-hz 10 --status 0 --sides auto|0|1` (below, "Side cameras"). It runs as a plain child process of the session, ended with SIGTERM when the part ends. SIGTERM ends ft-hands' loop, and `Recorder` writes out its queue when it's destroyed. In step mode (below) a part is one step's countdown and hold, so a take has one part per step (about 40 in the hand poses); in auto mode a take is one part, plus one more after each pause. `--record-for` is only a safety net.
   - Why a process per part rather than one kept alive and paused: measured in the dev container with `ft-ringplay`'s ring (2026-10-02), `ft-hands --record-only` writes its first set 16-27 ms after it starts and ends 4-6 ms after SIGTERM, so a new part costs nothing the 3 s countdown doesn't cover. Every reader already takes parts in order (`takes.py`, `validate.py` through the export's single stream, the labeller's `fhl_io.py`, numbering `sets-10.bin` after `sets-9.bin`), ft-hands needs no new control, and nothing is written while a step waits. Before the hold starts the session checks that the part has written a set (`Recorder.has_data`, up to 3 s more), so the hold is recorded from its first frame.
-- **Side cameras.** ft-camd can name the two side cameras the wrong way round (hands/README.md, "Which camera is which"). The tracking ft-hands decides from the hands within about 2 s of them being in view (`HANDS_SWAP_SIDES=auto`, hands/track/sides.h) and publishes that in `/run/user/UID/frametop-hands/sides.json`. The session reads it (`sides.py`, `read_live`) and stores it in session.json `"sides"`. Each later part is recorded named right (`--sides 1` or `0`). Parts recorded before the decision use ft-camd's names (`--sides auto`; a record-only ft-hands can't tell), and readers rename them (`sides.py`). Each part's `names_swapped` goes into take.json `"parts"`. Without a tracking ft-hands nothing decides: `"swapped": null`, the names stay as recorded, and the maintainer's check (`hub_review check`, check_sides on a few sets per take) tells. `takes.py sides SESSION --set swapped|named` records a decision by hand.
+- **Side cameras.** ft-camd can name the two side cameras the wrong way round (hands/README.md, "Which camera is which"). The tracking ft-hands decides from the hands within about 2 s of them being in view (`HANDS_SWAP_SIDES=auto`, hands/track/sides.h) and publishes that in `/run/user/UID/frametop-hands/sides.json`. With `HANDS_SWAP_SIDES` forced to `0` or `1`, the hands still decide what's published once they disagree (state `"forced, disagrees"`; `read_live` also corrects an ft-hands built before that). The session reads it (`sides.py`, `read_live`) and stores it in session.json `"sides"`. Each later part is recorded named right (`--sides 1` or `0`). Parts recorded before the decision use ft-camd's names (`--sides auto`; a record-only ft-hands can't tell), and readers rename them (`sides.py`). Each part's `names_swapped` goes into take.json `"parts"`. Without a tracking ft-hands nothing decides: `"swapped": null`, the names stay as recorded, and the maintainer's check (`hub_review check`, check_sides on a few sets per take) tells. `takes.py sides SESSION --set swapped|named` records a decision by hand.
 - **ft-handpanel** runs as a child process with `--watch-stdin`. It shows the panel and logs poses during each take.
 - **The headset button's reader** is a thread of the session (`ButtonReader`, below), not a process.